Not everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives.
Realize that some people in your life need to be loved from a DISTANCE.
It’s amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of, or at last minimize your time with draining, negative incompatible, not going anywhere relationships or friendships.
Scrutinize the relationships around you. Pay close attention. Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth up hill and which ones are going downhill?
When you leave certain people, do you feel better or worse?
Who in your life always has drama? Who doesn’t really understand you, know you, or appreciate you for who you are?
Who always condemns, criticizes, or puts you down, even in little ways?
The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you…the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
Remember…the people you choose to associate with will have an impact on the quality of your life and your moral, spiritual, and emotional well being. Only you can determine the nature of their impact. Will t be positive or negative?
Lastly, you must be careful in choosing the people we hang out with, as well as the information about ourselves that we choose to share with them. Don’t share your dreams with negative people, nor feed them with personal information which they can turn into something negative.
Who’s in your front row? -Author Unknown
Choosing carefully,
~Sonja
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All your blog posts are so true... awesome stuff sonja! You need to use some of these as speaking topics during your engagements.. especially this one and the leader blog, which one am i? i believe i have given tons of respect to those who deserve and even to those that don't. thats just who i am. but the ultimate reward will be given to me from God when it's all said and done.
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